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Instructors • Gracie Barra

Prof. Gabriel Weinem

Professor • Black Belt under Prof. Seidler Rodrigo

Married, father of two daughters, and a partner in a vacation rental company. He committed to Jiu-Jitsu at 28 and has never stopped for long since, fitting it around a career and a family the whole time. If you've ever thought you started too late, read his story.

Prof. Gabriel Weinem, Gracie Barra black belt instructor

In his own words

An interview with Prof. Gabriel.

On watching UFC 1 as a teenager, on committing at 28, and on why finding comfort in uncomfortable situations is the skill that matters most.

Could you introduce yourself?

I'm a businessman, married, and the father of two grown daughters. I started training Jiu-Jitsu when my second daughter was born, so it has been part of my life ever since.

Jiu-Jitsu has helped me overcome many personal and professional challenges. It taught me how to find comfort in uncomfortable situations, and pushed me to grow not only as an athlete, but as a man, a father, and a leader.

Today, in addition to my professional career in the vacation rental industry, I have the privilege of teaching Jiu-Jitsu during the week. It keeps my mind sharp, my body healthy, and allows me to stay connected with great friends and an inspiring community.

When did Jiu-Jitsu first enter your life?

My first contact with Jiu-Jitsu was watching UFC 1, when I saw Royce Gracie defeating much larger and stronger opponents. That fascinated me.

I trained briefly at 16 years old, then moved to the United States as an exchange student, where I had the opportunity to wrestle for a season in high school. Wrestling contributed greatly to my understanding of grappling.

After returning to Brazil, I stepped away from Jiu-Jitsu for a few years. At 28, I decided to fully commit. From white belt to brown belt, I trained intensely. When I later moved back to the United States for work, training was interrupted again due to relocation and family adjustments.

Eventually, I joined Gracie Barra Salt Lake City. That decision marked a new chapter. I earned my black belt under Professor Rodrigo and began teaching.

More than a single turning point, it was a realization. I needed more confidence, more control over my body, and a deeper understanding of my limits. Jiu-Jitsu became the path to that growth.

Prof. Gabriel Weinem visiting friends in Brazil
Prof. Gabriel Weinem visiting friends in Brazil

You taught English in Brazil. How did that shape the way you teach Jiu-Jitsu?

Teaching has always been part of who I am. I taught English for 15 years and worked with professionals from many different backgrounds: doctors, executives, bankers, lawyers. That experience strengthened my communication skills and my ability to connect with different personalities.

I learned how to structure lessons clearly, how to be patient, and how to explain concepts in a way that truly reaches people.

Although that chapter eventually closed, Jiu-Jitsu gave me another platform to teach, this time something deeply meaningful to me. My enthusiasm for sharing knowledge naturally transferred to the mats, and in many ways, teaching has also made me a better practitioner.

What brought you from Brazil to the United States?

It was both a long-term vision and a great opportunity that came at the right time. I was offered a professional position that eventually led me to become a partner in the company I work for. It required a lot of dedication and hard work, but it has also brought significant growth and meaningful opportunities.

Being able to combine my business career with teaching Jiu-Jitsu here in the U.S. has been incredibly rewarding.

Did you arrive planning to work in Jiu-Jitsu?

No, Jiu-Jitsu was never my primary professional plan. My career path has always been in business. However, I made a personal commitment to always keep Jiu-Jitsu in my life for as long as my body allows me to train. Teaching developed naturally over time.

How did you find your way to Gracie Barra?

In Brazil, I originally trained at Gracie Humaitá. When I moved to a different area, there was a Gracie Barra academy across the street from where I lived. There, I met a professor who knew Professor Rodrigo and recommended I visit Gracie Barra Salt Lake City.

That decision changed everything. The professors welcomed me with open arms. Today, they are not only colleagues but true friends. I've learned a great deal from them, and now have the opportunity to pass that knowledge on to my students.

Prof. Gabriel Weinem competing in a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu tournament
Prof. Gabriel Weinem competing in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu

What differences do you see between teaching in Brazil and in the U.S.?

In terms of Gracie Barra culture, I don't see differences. The standards and quality are consistently high in both countries.

One observation I've made is that American students often demonstrate strong discipline in following technical details and structure, which is something I truly appreciate as an instructor.

The ability to find comfort in uncomfortable situations is a superpower.

Prof. Gabriel Weinem

What does Jiu-Jitsu mean to you personally?

To me, Jiu-Jitsu means we cannot live life wearing masks.

On the mat, there is no pretending. Who you are and what you've prepared for becomes visible. Every reaction reflects your work and your character.

And as I often say, the ability to find comfort in uncomfortable situations is a superpower, one that translates into every aspect of life.

What are the most valuable benefits for someone starting today?

One of the greatest benefits is the confidence that comes from knowing you can defend yourself. That alone positively impacts self-esteem and emotional stability.

I often say that I start my day with people trying to choke me or threaten to break my arms and legs. After that, the challenges of daily life feel more manageable.

Jiu-Jitsu builds calm under pressure, resilience, and perspective. Qualities that extend far beyond the mats.

What do you like to do off the mats?

I value spending time with my family and friends above all. I also enjoy snowboarding and mountain biking, often with my wife, who shares those passions with me. These activities allow us to spend meaningful time together outdoors.

My professional responsibilities take a significant portion of my time, but whenever I have free moments, I dedicate them to training and continuing my development in Jiu-Jitsu.

Prof. Gabriel Weinem receiving his black belt from Prof. Seidler Rodrigo
Prof. Gabriel Weinem receiving his black belt from Prof. Seidler Rodrigo

Why his story matters

He committed to Jiu-Jitsu as an adult.

If you're an adult wondering whether it's too late, or whether life will get in the way, this is the honest version of what that looks like.

28

The age he committed

He trained briefly at 16, walked away, and came back years later. Almost nobody's path is a straight line, and his certainly wasn't.

2

Times he had to stop

Once when he stepped away in Brazil, once when he relocated to the U.S. for work. Both times he started again. That's the part that counts.

Black Belt

Earned while working

Alongside a business career, a partnership in a company, and raising two daughters. Not instead of any of it.

Not giving up made him exceptional. He built his Jiu-Jitsu around work and family, returning to training whenever life interrupted it. Over years of consistent practice, that commitment took him from beginner to black belt. His story is a reminder that progress comes from showing up, then showing up again.

Come to a class

Started at 28, with a job and two kids.

If your reason for not starting is your age, your schedule, or your family, he had all three. Book a free class, see how the room works, and decide from there. Your first class is free, and we’ll provide a loaner Gi. No purchase is required before you start.